Sunday, February 03, 2019

Mess is bad. It should always be


SUCH reckless and unnecessarily emotional babyhood or motherhood extolling tweets trouble me. Not only babyhood, we do not live any age twice for that matter.

So my suggestion would be never to align yourself with any mess. Ever.

Babies or kids are very perceptive and observant. They learn from us. If we offer them comfort in mess, they are likely to internalise being around mess as 'normal'. Messy surroundings, messy environment, messy eating, messy head and messing around... It would be totally unjust on our part to get them to discipline themselves all of a sudden upon growing up. Because we must reap what we have sown.

Say no to mess. Not even once. Never. What is wrong per se, has to be wrong always.

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